Home
I've
been thinking about home lately. The home Minnie made for us while
the children were growing up. The home we had when the grandchildren
were able to visit us very often. The home she and I had alone in
Washington State for eleven years. And I'm thinking that home as God
means for it to be should be a little taste of heaven while we're
still yet so imperfect in this fallen world. We live among fallen
creatures in a fallen world and sadly enough, we don't always help
to make it a better place. And yet in spite of the rigor and the
weariness of the daily chores and the unexpected problems that often
arise, very often when love and kindness are shown in the family and
we share in the excitement of learning and experiencing life as God
intended it, “how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell
together in unity.”
Home
should be a place of refuge where all are accepted and loved because
each has his or her own place to be and a responsibility to
contribute and a share in all the goodness that the family has
together. And this goes beyond the confines of the place that houses
the individual family as the greater family shares with one another
and helps bear one another's burdens. At home you can “wonder
aloud” about things and have help clarifying your thinking and
learning things you didn't know or understand. You can have
demonstrated from life-to-life “how then should we live?” You
can learn and share and teach each other the great truths you are
learning from the Word of God and learning how to walk in paths of
righteousness for His name's sake.
At
home you can walk by quiet waters and your soul can be refreshed and
renewed each day. At home you find help with your problems. And you
can share the excitement of the accomplishments God gives you. After
all half the joy of the good things of life is sharing them with
those you love.
I
said that I was thinking about “the home Minnie made for us while
the children were growing up.” Actually we all made it together
not any one person (and surely the husband and father has a major
role to play, too), but a mother so often is able to set the tone for
the home, the attitude that is picked up by the rest of the family.
I think of Minnie's attitude of love and acceptance and hard work and
cheerfulness and doing things with such a “willing heart.” Those
are the qualities that all of us remember so well and wanted to
emulate. So I pray for the attitude of all the mothers I know that
they live up to what they know should be a good mother as described
in Proverbs 31, for example. And I pray that the children will love
their mother and father and honor them by obedience and a willing
heart to do what is right. And may the children be kind one to
another! I remember many times when the children were growing up and
one of them said something too sharply to another, I would hear
Minnie telling them from the other room in a kind, gentle voice
herself, “And be ye kind one to another!” And the children
responded and immediately softened their voices. I always loved to
see that response.
But
think now how God is the “ultimate Home builder,” the One who
invented home in the first place! How wonderful for a man and a
woman deeply in love to get married and set up their own home and
then through the glories of sexual relations (another creation of
God's; He thought up and created the whole idea!) then a family is
started. And what a good effect the children have on their parents!
How can you continue to be self-centered when little children need
your attention so much and so often? Having children is a major help
in breaking our “natural” self-centeredness.
So
God started the whole thing by creating Adam and Eve with the
capacities that they both had. 'God setteth the solitary in
families.” Ps.68:6 “He maketh the barren woman to keep house,
and to be a joyful mother of children.” Ps. 113:9 So God's wisdom,
power, and grace are all seen in this basic institution of the home
that God created.
Think
about the whole connotation of this well-loved word, “Home.”
Consider a paragraph Jeannine wrote to me in an e-mail the other day:
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